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*lfredo1400
writes:My girlfriend refuses to be intimate with me. Like when we met she was being all freaky with me and stuff sending me nasty text messages about how she was gonna suck me up and stuff. But as soon as we got together for a serious relationship it was game over. Half the stuff she said she would never even do in the bedroom. Yea everytime I see her well have sex, but she gots a really low sex drive which is completely opposite of what she made it out to be. I moved away about a month ago and its a long distance relationship, and now i cant even get a nasty text or nothing. I just dont get it. And I know shes a freak because she has a past, not really that slutty but she messed with about 10 guys in like 6 months since she lost her virginity then took a break then started going out with me. and she always has her mind in the gutter but she tries to hide it. I wonder if its so i wont think shes a slut. I really cant figure it out. wats da problem.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 July 2009): Lmao. Yeah. She "tricked" you into it. Weren't you trying to "trick" her by pretending to want to be with her longer, but it was only for a week, and then you changed your mind, and now that she is gone, you are the one complaining.
Now that you claim to be "in love" she has obviously gotten tired of you using her. Game over.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 July 2009): Well in my opinion, if your not really going out with her for the sex, then maby she is a little shy. Like I understan when she lost her virginity she probly couldnt stop doing it, but now she probly realizes that she really does like you and wants to stay with you, that she fears you will leave her after one good night. I dont know just think about the reasons of why she mite be doing what she's doing.
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reader, Alfredo1400 +, writes (17 July 2009):
Alfredo1400 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionNo its not like that at all. In the biggining yeah i just wanted sex, and she knows dat, she new dat wen we got together and she still did it with me. I didnt even think i was gona stay with her for more than a week. but now its like six months later and I actually do love her more than I loved any other girl in my life, and she knows this too. Our relationship is almost perfect, the only problem is i feel like she tricked me into it, becuz she acted lke a person she wasnt.
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reader, pebble  +, writes (16 July 2009):
 Yeah... How about you DON'T make sex the most important thing in the relationship? I don't think you're going to have a girlfriend for very long.
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