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writes:dear cupid.. Me and my godsister like the same guy, and he likes me and her. I asked him out and he said yes, then my godsister was mad at me. She told me to break up with him so I did but I really love him and I want to get back with him. What should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, somewhat_anonymous +, writes (15 August 2007):
Some would say never start a relationship that hurts a friendship. But would your godsister have gone for him and considered your feelings if you didn't go after him first?
If she's a friend, she should step aside. She doesn't run your life. It isn't like he went out with her and you stole him away. If she had gone out with him, would you have told her to break up with him?
Consider these things and then decide after you've had time to think.
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reader, beautifultrustnlover +, writes (15 August 2007):
 well frist your young and at this age well things like that happen just hope you get over it if you have to crushes come and go but also do what you want not just because she told you so because you dont have to but what ever step you go from now will be on you in what you want to do in this situation
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reader, Jamer70  +, writes (15 August 2007):
 i can understand why your godsister would be angry. As the man saying goes "bros before h***"
Turn this into the female version and she would say that if you noth wanted him neither should have him.
This is an age old arguement and has broken friends and families.
It would be bad of me to say stay broken up, but its better you talk to her first and both open up and say what your feeling, you should come to a conclusion thats leaves both parties happy.
Good luck
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (14 August 2007):
 You shouldn't have broken up with him. Do you think you can get him back?
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