| A
male
,
anonymous
writes: my girl friend and i are suposed to move into our own house this week end but just last week during a little argument she told me that she is only with me bucause of our one year old baby girl, what shoud i do? Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, willywombat  +, writes (4 March 2006):
 We all say things we do not mean during the heat of an argument. In fact if you take all things into consideration and look at the stress you are both under it is surprising one or other of you hasn't cracked befroe this.
When you are both getting along with no hint of tension in the air ask her did she mean what she said. She will probably be mortified that you have been stewing on it all this time...
Good luck with the house move.x
A
female
reader, anonymous, writes (3 March 2006): sometimes we all say things that we dont mean.set her down tell her how you really feel about herand just tell her that itreally got to you when she said that.maybee she feels like thats what your thinking. and she wanted to see how youd respond to it. girls like it when you teel them how you feel.trust me.
...............................
A
female
reader, em123 +, writes (3 March 2006):
we all say things in the heat of the moment.sit your girlfriend down and talk about things properly,tell her how much her comment upset you and see if you can resolve matters.good luck.
...............................
A
female
reader, anonymous, writes (3 March 2006): LEAVE HER!!!!!!why would you want to be with someone who doesnt love you? it would prob be easier for your little girl if it happens now rather than when she is old enough to understand, remeber the truth is usually spoken in the heat of the moment
...............................
A
reader, anonymous, writes (3 March 2006): Depends on what you feel about her. Actually no it doesn't. If I were you, I'll sit down with her and tell her that I want to be an active part of our baby's life, but between me and her, we can end our relationship. Even though I do not support the idea of friendship after a break-up, I will force myself to do that out of love and growth for our baby. It will most definitely hurt me, but then again, my mentality may differ from yours - as in, "her happiness before mine" sort of mentality.
...............................
|
