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writes:We are a new couple, three months, we haven't had a argument, every thing been sweet, she hasn't called or tex in four days, I've texted three times, I haven't heard anything from her, is it over, she told me in the beginning, if a guy started to fall in love, or if she did, she runs, did she run, a guy in pain.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 December 2015): I think you want a serious relationship and she is not ready for that. She told you from the beginning that she didn't want to move quickly but you did anyway! Makes sense why she has stepped back...too much intensity way too soon for her. Give her some space.
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reader, no nonsense Aidan  +, writes (10 December 2015):
Honeypie’s right. I think the warning signs were clearly there. Maybe there is a reason, or maybe this is it. I think Honeypie made a good suggestion when she suggested looking to see what platforms she’s been active on. Didn’t you talk at the time about why she runs like this? Didn’t you ask her why and what might help her not to do that? I think that she has probably given up, and if she hasn’t it’s only going to be a matter of time before this ends so I’d call it a day if I were you.
I wish you all the very best.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 December 2015): Thanks honeypie, I guess I got ghosts
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (10 December 2015):
 If she runs when she fall for people, I guess it's better that it happens after 3 months not a year or two.
As for her not texting for 4 days, have you tried picking up that phone of yours and CALLED her?
Personally, if someone told me they do a "runner" when they fall for people, I'd rather not date them, because WHAT is the point then? Seems pretty like a immature move for someone in their 30's.
Call her and ask her what's up?
Is she active on FB, but just ignoring you? If so... If she can post stuff to her FB but not pick up when you call or text, I'd just block and delete her and move on. Sounds like she is "ghosting" you. (which basically is dumping you without letting you know).
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