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She told me she likes someone else...

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Question - (27 September 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 27 September 2008)
A male age 30-35, *ntt123 writes:

Well..where would i start.. i spent My senior year of high school in new jersey. While i was there , i met this girl that i was amazed by her from the very first time i laid eyes on her beautiful smile. So as time passed , we began to know Each other , spoke more often , and eventually we began to feel something for each other. Sometimes during my time we were together she would act somewhat indifferent , as if she didn't care..and other times like i was her everything. the school year came to an end eventually. and i graduated. i moved to nyc where i now live. i miss her everyday , all i do is think about her. she still contacts me , and she still calls me by all of my nicknames , and she still calls me babe. she says she always misses me. Last night she called me , and told me that she had feelings for another guy. i told her it was alright , that she could do as she pleased as long as she was going to be happy. i really had no choice , but it was killing me on the inside. I love this girl very much , more than i have ever loved anyone in this world. i have always been hurt by girls , i have never had a worthwhile relationship. now that i feel her leaving it's just too much for me to deal with. the though of just seeing her with another guy ..kissing her , touching her...it makes me want to die..what should i do?... should i let her go , and discontinue my communication with her..? or should i wait ?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 September 2008):

I have been through the same thing except im a girl. I still wish that someday he would realize im the one that he really loves, but i dont think its happening. I think you should still talk to her, but not as much. You should try to meet other girls cuz you dont want to be waiting for nothing. Try not to think about her too much. You can fall in love in an instant. It's letting go that takes time.

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