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writes:I've been rekindling an old high school flame and I'm having a lot of trouble lately. A few years after a messy divorce she has just (late 2006) relocated out of the area and is now living on the east coast. We had a short visit over the holidays and I really felt the connection with her. After she returned back east, I found out she was living with another man and they share a bed. She said it wasn't that kind of relationship yet hasn't told him about me. Now she has stopped calling or texting me. I really love this girl and I don't know what to do. Should I go after her or should I move on?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2007): SHE shares a bed with someone else!!!!!!!!!!! Are you mad?????????? Why didn't she tell you about this one. You don't sleep in the same bed as someone else, do you, just for the fun of it, er come on! Why are you whittling about her? She lives all those miles away. Forget her. Burn her number and address and move on. This is never going to work. She has stopped getting in touch with you. What more evidence do you want? Wake up!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2007): I agree, move on. It sucks, I know, but there are a lot of wonderful people in this world and time will heal your pain.
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reader, AskEve  +, writes (16 February 2007):
 It takes two people to make a successful relationship and if she's stopped contacting you I'd say she's telling you something there. She knows your number so I'd give her some space for now and move on. If she ever wants to get back in touch then she knows where you are.
Why would you want to keep in contact with someone who shares a bed with another anyway? You're only going to end up with emotional baggage and be hurt in the process. Move on and let her contact you again! (if she ever does...)
Eve
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