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30-35,
*hris060690
writes:i met this girl from a friend, she is very pretty, and looks totally interested in me, we've met trough msn then phone, then we've gone onto 4 dates, i asked her on valentine's, we went out and i asked her to be my gf, she said it was too soon and she said she needs more time we've met 3 weeks ago but we talk every day on the phone, her last ex was 2 years ago, what do u people recommend she still talks to me and wants to go out, i feel bad for being rejected help me!!!
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (16 February 2008):
 Your situation is like you go to the farm and you fell in love with the farmer's cow.The cow likes you and you offered to buy the cow from the farmer.
You give your price but the farmer rejected your offer. You feel rejected. It is not the end yet. You make another offer and maybe the farmer may want to sell it to you.
This is an anecdote only.
She is interested in you but she wants to be very sure , you are the right one for her. You have to give her more time to decide.
You cannot expect an instant gratification. She is not that type of girl. She has been bitten before and thats why she is very careful .
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reader, Laura1318 +, writes (16 February 2008):
How can you win her when you cannot cross your first mental roadblock in your head ? If she is not worth it , you can always U turn and go another route.
Do you want her with all your heart ?
Then you have to learn patience, understandings and endurance in this marathon race to the finish. LOL!
You need to give a time period because you don't want to date a girl who only likes to have everything on the house.
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reader, kellyO  +, writes (16 February 2008):
 Hi Chris,
Dont take it that way. She went out with you on val's day means she is heavy interested in you. Dont blow this one i tell you. Give her the time she wants to get to know you better and try to be as charming as i know you are.
Goodluck cos i know u need it!
Kelly.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2008): Firstly honey, try not to feel so bad about being 'rejected'. From what you've described, she likes you a lot, but just wants to keep things cool for the moment while she gets to know you longer. Maybe she's the type of girl that prefers taking things slowly - I mean, you haev only known her 3 weeks. Wait a little while, and she'll come round, as long as her interest stays :] Don't stress out, really, it could be worse. Just take it nice and slow with her :] good luck.
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