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writes:Did I do the right thing, an ex an me got back to get her, after four years she said at first let's have fun no commitment, I said ok,but we started shopping together movies going out dancing nice places to eat I was staying the nights, then after four weeks we went out to dance an she said no more spending the nights together or sex no more,but she was the one asking me to spend all the time with her,she still wanted to do all the things we have been doing but know sex, just be friends, I told her I can't be just friends an do all the things together,so I told her not to call or text me again,don't even say hello to me again this is the second time she's done this, an we were getting along better this time then before, was no contact the best way to end this, an by the way she is a Medium, she talks to dead people, I think she is really one, the last night we spent together,she said my mom came an kissed me on my cheek,I did wake up, my mom passed away Dec 24, last year, I really wonder if she is one or nutts
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (3 April 2016):
 If you don't want to be JUST friends, then yes you did the right thing.
She was the one to "flip the switch", by changing the rules without asking you first. So you can definitely decide ENOUGH is enough.
Whether she is a medium or not is irrelevant, it has nothing to do with how she played games with you.
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reader, Ciar  +, writes (3 April 2016):
 I think no contact was the right course of action if you're feelings for her are such that you can't be just friends.
It's doubtful that she's stringing you along or deliberately playing games with you, but her expectations are unrealistic.
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reader, janniepeg +, writes (3 April 2016):
 I won't say it's impossible that your mom kissed you. With this woman, you did the right thing in ending it. No need to feel guilty or insert more reasons to justify. Nutty or not, she's just wasting your time.
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