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writes:Hi guys, I have been seeing a new girl for the past 2 months or so. We get on great, shes loveable, gorgeous, smart, everything I want her to be however, there is something that concerns me. She still has pictures of her and her exes (like 4 guys) on her PC, some of the pictures are of them having sex etc. I am sure that she doesnt speak to them anymore, but I dont hold any photos of my exes, should I be bothered about this or is it normal behaviour?!Also, she has lots of stories to tell, but they are all about her exes. She changes the names in the stories to protect me I guess?I feel a little awkward with her having the photos, when you start a new relationship I guess you are naive in thinking you are the only one and want to block these out. I havent taken up the conversation with her - but thanks in advance for the help guys!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2009): Having pictures of her and her exes smiling or whatever is one thing, but having pictures of their SEX... THAT is disturbingly inappropriate.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2009): Agree with Kelly, think have a talk with her and say you aren't comfortable with them and its disrespectful for the people involved. If the pc was stolen....
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reader, kellyxxx +, writes (15 May 2009):
 It is out of order, you need to tell her that having these pictures and talking about her ex's is un acceptable!! Its not normal at all! If I was you I would tell her they need to go asap! X
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