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She says she's too young for a long term comitted relationship

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Question - (14 January 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 14 January 2010)
A male United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

What does it mean when your girlfriend says she feels too young for a serious commited relationship, that she feels trapped, she doestnt like the idea of long term relationships?

also what does it mean when she says that because ur her first official boyfriend that if she was to carry on with you she would end up argueing and hating you or cheat 'or any of those reasons that couples break up'

I have taken this break up very badly for the fist 3 days i didnt eat anything...i have only just got my eating pattern back. i also been going out all week just gettng as drunk as i can, sometimes drinking a bottle of vodka aday maybe more alcohol during the binge....i have lost 7 lbs already can anybody help me

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A reader, anonymous, writes (14 January 2010):

I feel your pain, im in a very similar situation where me and my ex broke up due to her not knowing what she wanted and we've been arguing since, horrible stuff and i find any excuse to text her, only to get a short reply :/ i felt better after doing a work out yesterday and talking to new people, you most likely will not end up back together but allow yourself time to grieve, maybe set a timeline for it...

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (14 January 2010):

It means that she's not the girl for you, and wants to go and find herself. You now have to realize that she has moved on. Drinking won't help at all, that'll just leave you ill. Focus on your own life now, getting better and moving forward. My first girlfriend cheated on me and dumped me. Now I'm with someone far better than her. You'll find your Miss Right.

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