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writes:hey hmmm well ive got a bit of a situation.. here goes:well my boyfriend is 9 yrs older than me, Im 16 and hes 25... Initially, I was really unsure about him, becuase hes older, attractive, sucsessful and intelligent and a genuine caring guy, and has no problem getting girls, and ive seen pictures of ex gfs, and let me tell you, they were all gorgeous and older than me... or more close to his age... weve been going out for a few months and we're very close. We havent had sex yet, but that doesnt phase him and i dont think that its really affected our relationship. I really dont understan something: everytime we get into a 'heated' or passsionate whilst kissing, he'll back out after a few minutes, no matter how hard on he is and just says, "not now" or "not yet", hes had sex before, so i dont see what the problem is Isnt it hard for guys to control stuff like that.... hell, sometimes he starts to touch my upper half, and jerks his hand away as if hes done something disgusting or whatever. Im too embarrassed to ask why.. any suggestions????
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reader, JUSTBROWSING  +, writes (20 October 2008):
 I agree with DoubleM, he can face big time consequences and you should rethink why is this 25 yr old man who is successful, smart and attractive with you. What is it I have a woman his ages doesn't, I think the whole thing should be called off and maybe he should get counseling for his issue, because he knows he has one thats why he hasn't engaged in sex with you, and you should take a step back and watch some Law & Order SVU and realize your on the verge of becoming a victim of a child molester. Your a baby stay a baby men will always be here, play with your own age swetheart don't be in a rush, I learned the hard way. take the advice you've seeked and live by it. trust me
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (20 October 2008):
 Well, the laws in Australia may indeed prohibit sexual activity between an adult and a minor. I'm not familiar with Australian law, but in the United States of America, your 25-year-old boyfriend could face very serious consequences for engaging in such behavior with anyone under about 18 if caught or identified as a perpetrator. He is playing with fire here.
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