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writes: ok whats the deal with this girl, shes likes me and i like her, she broke up with her ex and its been like 7 months right now, her ex cheated on her and now she dont trust no 1,anyways so i got her number an shes calls me every night an we talk an flirt , so yesterday we went on our first date an she was proper flirting with me, like we were sharing meals togeathers, an she was gettig close to me. i could tell by her body language the stranges thing is she says that shes not ready for a relationship yet she still wants to go out on dates with me, and flirt. i dont kno, what the heck am i supposed to do?
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reader, AngelofLove  +, writes (18 January 2007):
 first date, she clearly wants to take it slow. She is still hurt from past relationship. 7 months might be enough for you but not for her to trust again, everybody is different and heals at different pace.
If you really like her, do not rush her and be patient.
She will let you know when she is ready.
If you do not want to wait, tell her and move on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2007): She has come out of one relationship and sounds like she doesn't want one just yet. Just the fun. Go along with that and don't hurry it. It sounds to me like she will be ready but in her terms, which is good. Sit back and enjoy the experience, it will be worth it.
Take care
xx
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