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30-35,
*andalf55555
writes:I'm 15. My girlfriend and I have been going out for 4 months now, and everything is great, except there's no sexual side to our relationship. I know most of you will probably say we're too young, but seriously, it's been 4 months and we haven't done anything. She says she isn't having sex until she's 16, and I'm fine with that, but she also said that until then we could just like, fool around. But the thing is we don't. EVER. and when we're talking on the phone or something, if the subject comes up, she starts saying all this stuff like she's up for fooling around and everything, but she never, EVER is, and that annoys me because she's just stringing me along.I'm starting to get really frustrated.Any advice? Reply to this Question
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reader, love-him  +, writes (21 June 2007):
 Right first off.. you need to think hard bout wot ur sayin.. ur sayin u arnt bothered about having sex but you want to fool around... your getting annoyed because she says she will fool around but never does.. think of it this way.. you are asking her about it, the only way she thinks she can please you is tell you this.. have you thaught she might not be READY??? you need to stop talking like this and tell her its ok, and you will wait for her.. for everything.. ok? mail me if u wana talk x x x
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reader, Jamer70 +, writes (21 June 2007):
 Like yummymummy said maybe she is shy about sexual stuff. It seems like you may be pressuring her and if you do this you will lose her soon!!!Just wait until she is ready as if you force her she will regret it her whole lie which is not good.Just wait for her to be ready youve only been dating 4 months.
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2007): Dear boy, if she is being such a hypocrite, sit her down, and talk to her. Confront her, and never let things go between you two. It's important to know how she's feeling so you don't pressure her into saying something she thinks you want to hear. You might have already done that without knowing.Much love,Heidi the Ho.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2007): Look boy, if you can't have a relationship with her without the sexual part, you are being an ass. Suck it up, if you think she's being a hypocrite, tell her that and make her stop teasing you. Much Love,Heidi the Ho.
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reader, myp  +, writes (21 June 2007):
 Maybe shes just nervous, and doesnt want to initiate. Make her feel comfortable, and dont pressure her too much. If and when you guys start making out and she objects to any kind of foreplay remind her that youve respected her decision to wait till shes 16, and see how far shes willing to let you go and still be in her comfort zone.Best of luck-Myesha
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reader, YummyMummy +, writes (21 June 2007):
 Maybe she's shy when she's around you to initiate something. Maybe she's saying she wants to but doesn't really. I would sit down and chat with her about it and see what she says.
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