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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes: Ive been going out with my boyfriend for the past 2 years and were planning on moving in together for college, i love him but i cheated on him about a month ago.. the lad i done it with is texting me and wants to meet up with me again and i really like him too and dont know what to do! Any advice??
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reader, Frank B Kermit +, writes (21 June 2007):
Firstly, do NOT move in with your bf, no matter what happens with the other guy. College is hard enough without having to deal with break up issues then.
I would suggest that you tell your bf that you want the both of you to start seeing other people. It sounds to be like your relationship is already over...you just do not have the guts to hurt him. Seeing other people might ease the pain when you do finally break up with him.
Otherwise, make a decision to committ to your bf, and stop cheating.
-Frank B Kermit
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female
reader, YummyMummy +, writes (21 June 2007):
Before you meet up with this guy have a serious think about who you want to be with. Meeting up with this guy again while still with your boyfriend is unfair on him. If you decide to stay with your boyfriend it may be a good idea to cease any contact with this other guy.
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