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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Here is my story and my question is where do I go now?:There is this girl and she knows I have liked her for 8 years. My friend and her mates went for a sleepover at another person house. When we got there she said she would be late because she was waiting for my friend. They arrived together and then at about 11pm we were all tired and I'm lying on the sofa and on the other sofa their lying up cuddled into one another and shit. I just kept pretending I was asleep so I wouldn't look at them if there were pulling. Then they basically "slept" together during the night and I was like shit. My other friend told me that was out of order doing that in front of my face and shit and then I think he spoke to our other friend because I received a text from him saying that nothing would happen and he is really sorry and that he understands if I never speak to him again. I feel my friend speaking to him made it worse because I dont wanna look like the guy who cant move on. I know my friend doesnt like her and was just being a prick but there factor is that she likes him and shit. I havent spoken to any of them over messenger and shit. I feel that if my friend didn't tell his gf and our our friend how I was feeling then I could have pretended I didnt care, but now he has made out that I care and Im hurt, even though I am I didnt want them to know. My best friend told her that I was feeling like I didn't want to go out with the group anymore because of this and she rang me telling me how sorry she was and she didn't want to lose our friendship that we've had for so long no matter what may happen between here and the other boy.
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reader, samohir  +, writes (18 November 2007):
 I wasnt able to understand the question in full, But as i Get it she slept with this guy in the same room with you and probably having sex also!? Well, that is uncomfortable situation,but not that sufficient to break a long friendship.. Maybe you should speak to her, and point out that You dont feel good when such things are revolving in front of ur eyes.
Hope she would not make the same thing another time:0
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 November 2007): Your female friend doesn't like you romantically. NEVER WILL. (read about "Ladder theory" online)
Your male friend (who got busy with your female friend) sounds like kind of a jerk if he knew about your feelings and didn't actually want her in the first place for any moe than fun.
You should realize that your female friend will want him like crazy now. He was willing to mess around with her but didn't actually care of treat her well, and that's more attractive than anything else to most girls.
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