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writes:I have been with this girl for like 3 months, everything started of great. we where seeing each other every day, texting, etc. She was over at my place all the time, we where always cuddling and wrestling it was awesome. then these last 2 weeks or so everything changed abruptly. I didn't see her for like a whole week. I would text her but she just say she was shopping, nails, out with friends etc. etc. i didn't make much of it because everyone needs there time alone so i was cool with it, then it continued to be like that, just me doing the calling and texting and excuses not to hang out or come over. So i finally got tired of it, and went over to her place and pretty much spilled my guts out. I told her what the hell was up, if she was seeing someone, why was she being like that to me etc etc. It was a long and hard talk for me, i had never done that. In the end she seemed to understand, she said she liked me a lot, that i was different, but she had just gotten out of a relationship when we started fooling around. So i asked if she wanted for me to just give her some time or just call it quits, and she didn't know how to answer she just said i don't know. So it went on from there i did not talk to her for like another week. All of a sudden she started texting me again like everything is cool so i texed back. it seems we are talking again but I can tell its not the same. It seems she only talks when she needs something. Any other guy in my position would have thrown her to the wolfs a long time ago. But i just cant, i don't know what it is about her, but she makes me feel like no girl ever has, i can barely talk, i cant think straight, i loose my appetite, when she is around nothing else matters. i just want things to be great between us again like when we just started. I've been in so many bad relationships, i am in my early 20's, and just tired of heartless b*tch's out there. So im just gonna go with it for now, but take it slow. i don't know if this is a lost cause or if im just wasting my time or maybe she is just using me like the rest of them did. I'm just so confused i don't know what to do...
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell thank you very much. you know one thing i noticed is that you mentioned how there is people that don't like to talk. I find that ironic, she kinda mentioned that to me to. I can understand why, it was probably the harder thing i have ever done in my life, but i did it in a mature way think. But that's just the way i am. I was put in a position where things had to be said and i did. maybe she did not like that, i don't know. but how is a person supposed to know there is a problem when the other person is not communicating. i am no psychic. oh by the way she contacted me again. I don't know if it is time for a final talk or whatever.
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