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anonymous
writes:i have been chilling with this girl for awhile. we go to break together talk kiss have a great time . now we went on a date to my place(per) her request and we started getting into it and it stopped and she left. she said she wanted to postpone this to sometime during the week so i texted her a few days later and she didn't think it was a good idea and said that she didn't feel a spark. so we didn't talk for awhile then she started talking and i asked her what she ment and she said she didn't want to rush into anything. now its back to were we left off but i am trying to figure out where this is going. all the signs are telling me yes conversation, laughing, eye contact, but i feel that if i keep asking her to chill that she is going to get annoyed. what should i do
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reader, aunty_rach  +, writes (14 October 2008):
i would not worry too much and i would not bug her too much about it. maybe she is just nervous and wants it to be special. trust me there's nothing worse then a guy pestering a girl about why she does not want to get intimate. how long have u been together? if she is like me, then she probably wants to make sure that she knows u really well before. just take things slow with her, it could be as well that she may not have much experience, so she may be unsure of herself or what to do. there's no rush, think of it as foreplay. that brings the other idea to my head...she could be a tease. playing hard to get. like i said just take it slowly, make out your not gagging for it and maybe she will make a move.
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