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writes:There is a rumor going around school about my gf dumping me no one knows why but we think shes pregnant (we being me and my gf) I really love her and was gonna propose I already got the ring it was $1,487 which was all I could afford. I was seriously excited about the baby so its dissapointing that I may have to give her up what do I do Ask her to marry me or leave her behind?!?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 June 2008): I still think proposing now is just silly. If you get married young you'll be miserable and divorced within ten years. Don't throw your life away!
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reader, aphexinfinite  +, writes (14 June 2008):
 thats great i hope it all goes well for the both of you . aphex x
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks i took your advice and she is pregnant i am planning on proposing to her tonite it will be our 50th date
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (13 June 2008):
 I think you simply need to talk to her.
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reader, tux +, writes (13 June 2008):
 Well you need to find out if she is actually pregnant. Marriage can wait and honestly if you really wanted to marry her, you could do without the ring.. The baby will require more than that.. But i wish you the best.
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reader, bday121 +, writes (13 June 2008):
 Um well...you need to ask her if the rumors are true or not. Only she knows the real answer. Then, you need to ask her why the relationship ended, and she needs to give you a clear answer. If the relationship is definitely over for her, then leave it in the past. You're young and there's many women ahead. However, if the relationship problems can be fixed, then work through them. Communication is key.
I do have to say though...why the rush into marriage? You're still in school, slow down! You have your whole life ahead of you to experience. You do realize that you can be in love with a girl without being married to her? You two could even move in together without getting married. Anyway, I just reccommend you slow down a bit, because hasty/young marriages often do not bode well.
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reader, aphexinfinite +, writes (13 June 2008):
you need to talk to your gf and not listen to rumours at all..talk to her about how she feels and try and get everything out in the open as she is the only one with the answers to your questions.. hope that helps aphex gd luck x
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