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writes:This girl at school really likes me and I like her but the only thing she is way out of my league and i feel i wouldn't be able to handle her as people would say and i just want to be friends with her for now because childhood relationships never last but she really likes me and i feel shocking,then again she hasnt told everyone she likes me only a few people know so that makes it easier,please can anyone help me because i dont want to upset her because we are good friends,wat shall i say to her? Reply to this Question
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reader, Uncle Trev +, writes (15 January 2008):
If you consider her to be out of your league it rather says a lot more about how you put yourself down as opposed to how attractive or stunning she is.
If you think this lowly of yourself you are not giving the relationship a chance to kick off. Instead of focusing on rubbish like "out of my league" comments focus on what it is about you that she does like instead. It seems from what you say that she can see something positive in you even if you cant.
By what you say she sounds stunning and you have the chance to be the envy of most other lads at your school. If you are not going to take it when it is handed to you on a plate then maybe you do not deserve a relationship with her after all.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2008): Oh grow up will you kid.
Why do you care what people will say, you both like each other and it is only that which you need to care about.
Man, why do people think this way?
Flynn 24
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2008): hi there, i can understand your position and i will suggest that you talk to her and tellher honestly. there is nothing better in this world to be honest about your feelings; you will be surprised that the other party would have preferred to know the truth , rather than just be lied to. and we all want to keep love as sacred as it can be.make her understand how you feel too, if she really likes you, she will.YOu would rather tell her honestly than beat around the bush, which will cause more pain for her as well. better know the truth and get over it than to be lead on, until you reach a point where going back will be hard. i hope this clarifies.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 January 2008): if her being "out of your league" is the only problem.... then don't be sooo silly! Would you think it was okay to say you couldn't possibly go out with someone because you were out of their league.. i hope not! Here's a secret.. there's no such thing as "leagues" :)
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