A
male
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:So, I just met this girl who shows that she likes me, and even admitted to it... we have not been out on a date yet, because she says she is not ready.... however, she somehow keeps showing up at the library and the gym were i work out. she said she is not ready to date because she got out of a relationship about 6 months ago.... how do i get this girl to forget about her past and move on?????
View related questions:
her past, move on Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, starfairy  +, writes (18 December 2007):
 Unfortunately if you try to force her into something she's not ready for, the chances are the relationship will crash and burn.
Just think if it this way, if she's so totally worth it, waiting a month or 2 won't mske much of a difference.
Just be careful you don't totally build her up in your mind and put her on a pedestal, so that when you do finally get together, you're disapointed.
Just give her time, be glad that she's not said No completely to the idea of a relationship. She might still be getting over her ex, which would really cause problems if you were to get together.
She obviously likes you, turning up at the same places as you, just have some patience, she'll really appreciate it if you make it clear you're here for her, and will wait as long as she needs. I appreciate it's hard when you really want to be with someone, but if you really want her, this is what you have to do.
|
