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writes:i used to mastrabrate a lot. and now for the first time i tried to make love with my girl fren i have no errection at all. i do not know what problem i had. We used to talk lot about sex with frens but now its a big problem with me and i am going mental.
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reader, starfairy  +, writes (18 December 2007):
 I had a boyfriend for 6 months and we didn't have sex once. He would get an erection but when it came to putting the condom on, it would go flaccid. He said it had never happened to him before. I always made sure he knew it wasn't a big deal, we had plenty of foreplay and oral sex instead. But I think he would get so wound up and frustrated, and embarassed about it, that it really just didn't help the situation.
I guess you just need to relax a bit. Not worry about it. If you think you might have a medical problem, see your doctor. Maybe give Viagra a go. Good luck!
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reader, chlez83  +, writes (18 December 2007):
Cool down man you are gonna have a heart attack! Atleast you admit that you used to musturbate alot.I'm really against people who encourage lads to do it alot.When you do it over a long period of time,you become used to the feeling of your palm and a vagina begins to seem foreign.While i agree some it is good too much of it is bad.In my view your penis is so used to musturbating that it's having a hard time enjoying a woman.On the other hand when a guy hasn't had action for a long time there's usually a mixture of excitement and fear and you find that you are limp.Don't worry with time it'll pass but for now try other things apart from penetration like oral.
Good luck.
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