A
male
age
30-35,
*ilveknifex
writes:About 2 weeks ago this girl told me she loved me and it felt genuine. We have been talking for a while and been talkig on the phone every night and hanging out and we still talk on the phone every night, but she went out with her ex, and she's still not over him. I can understand she said I do mean a lot to her, and she appreciates me, and I have also told her I loved her and she said she did too but only once, the one time I said it 2 weeks ago, well this past Monday, she was going somehwere, I didn't ask because I trust her, I later found out that night, it was to see her ex, and god knows why but she had planned to lose her virginity to him and then just end it all together, I don't know why she wanted to do this, but she tried to say, she wanted to lose it to somone she cared, about and I got confused here, because then I thought oh you don't care about me? This is unforgivable. They actually didn't get to sex, but she has said she text him asking him if they were gunna finish, I HAVE NO CLUE WHY SHE TELLS ME ALL THIS, I mean I mean a lot to her but SHE KNOWS how much I love her and for me to hear that it's just well, it hurts me a lot. What's going on in her head what should I do?
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reader, lgonzal2 +, writes (27 March 2009):
 Let her go man. You are waisting your time and efforts with someone who is playing games or is confused. Don't be dumb or your just going to get hurt even more.
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reader, Mr Me +, writes (26 March 2009):
 Tell her something along these lines because this logic should hopefully strike a bell in her head.
She said she wants to lose her virginity to someone who cares. Granted her ex did care about her at the time they were dating, but obviously they are not anymore. This probably means that they don't care for each other that greatly anymore. Therefore, she should not give her virginity to him because, in waiting, she will find someone who cares even more than her ex does.
I don't know, that logic works for me. Don't know if it really helps, though :-/
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