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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Me and my boyfriend have been together for about a year now. We are in love and very happy. No problems yet. He recently told me that, when we first started dating and being together, that most woman he saw were 10x hotter. Even females he wouldn't usually be interested in. Everywhere he went, womenn were enhanced. He found them very sexually attractive. Even after we had sex, and we were both virgins. Is that normal for guys?
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reader, iAshiee  +, writes (9 January 2009):
I'm going to answer your question with another question: Do you find other men attractive? Have you found yourself thinking, "Hey... he's pretty hot!" when a guy walks by?Unfortunatly, as much as us woman would love to be the only hot/sexy/beautiful/gorgeous woman to the man we're with, this is far from the truth. There is always going to be someone hotter than you, smarter than you, and so on. The same applies for your boyfriend. There will always be someone more attractive then him.What's important is he never acts upon it, or pushes the matter on you. Let him know that him telling you things like this bothers you, and you would much rather NOT hear it. Obviously, despite the fact that he found these woman to be very attractive, you hold a higher spot in his heart, since he is still with you. It's like my boyfriend has told me, "If I honestly wanted some hot bodied teenager/woman instead of you, I wouldn't be with you right now. I love you, not them. Just because I find someone else hot, or may call them hot, doesn't mean I think any less of you".Also, you need to remember that men tend to say things that they don't realize hurt us. While the truth hurts, it's better than smiling over a lie.So, all in all, yes, it is normal. No matter how much we love the person we are with, we are always going to find others attractive. It's just human nature. (:
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