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51-59,
anonymous
writes:I met my gf 1 year ago. At first, I am sure she is very interested in me. She called and text me a lot everyday and stayed up late, waiting for me come back from work so that we can talk online.I love her more and more because the way she is for me. She said she will be very happy if I called her every morning. Since that day, I call or text her when I just woke up and before I go to bed.When we were friends, she is very flirty with me. Without asking, she told me one of her x. We get closer and closer then we get started. I felt I am horrible, kind of the third person because the time we get so close, she is still with her x. I only know this few weeks ago.For me, she cheat on her x. But once a cheater doesn't mean forever a cheater. The problem is the better I treat her, the more she changed. She no longer do the usual things, text, call or stay up late.Until few months ago, I noticed that she is not available on every weekend. Whenever I called, she will miss my call. Sometimes, at night, she will just text back, telling she forgot her phone at home.It comes to a point I even give her the exact time I will call her on weekend, yet she gives me the same reason. It just happened again yesterday.She told me she is going to her relative house next week. Well, that is not exactly the way she told me. She say she is going to an area. The way she tell me gives me a feeling she will go for few weeks. As I know that area is where her relative lived. But I don't think she is going to her relative house because if she is, she will just say going to the relative house instead of going to that area. Make sense?I can no longer see the spark from her action. I am worried because I would like her to be the one.We live quite far and we don't meet each other that much. Is that the source of this problem? Could it be the way I reached her makes her changed? Even the best food in this world if you eat it everyday you get bored. Does that apply to relationship? Do girls always forgot their phone? Or simply she cheat?Some may say loving someone doesn't expecting them to love you back. But I would prefer my wife is someone that I love and she loves me too.Thank you for reading and any advice would be greatly appreciated.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 February 2011): you are a good person, i would forget her and find some one who wont waste your time. or you can try talk to her and find out what the deal is. goodluck my freind... god is on your side!
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2008): She is not a true person, she is a deceiver. That is all you need to know. Can't understand why no one else as bothered to answer your question.
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