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I am a bit chubby and my body image is not what I would want it to be, is this a big deal with guys, any

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Question - (4 August 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 4 August 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

i recently lost about 60lbs now my chest has gotten a bit saggy is it that big a deal if the girls arent so perky? but thats not whats really bothering me my issue is with my vagina not my actual vagina itself im totally happy with that part but i havee like i dont know chub i guess you could call it and im really insecure about it. its whats holding me back from having sex and well i really think i found that 1 but i dont want him to br=e grossed out by it or anything is it really as bad as i think?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2008):

She doesn't - it's a figure of speech.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2008):

i agree with the above writer, only where does she say anything about warts? i thought she was writing about her being a little chubby...

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2008):

I doubt that it is. You are what you are, and if he's got anything about him at all he'll accept you for what you are, warts and all. If he's 'grossed out' about it, he's not the one for you.

Everyone has some insecurities about their body, especially at your age, and he'll be no exception. In his case he'll probably be wondering if his tackle measures up or that his six pack is more like a barrel.

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A female reader, soulcal United Kingdom +, writes (4 August 2008):

soulcal agony auntdont worry about your body image if a boy finds he loves you and is happy the way you are there shouldnt be a need to change for him as he loves you for who you are

i hope this helps x

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