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writes:Hi I'm a sixteen year old boy and there is this girl I really like. The thing is I think I have became too much of a friend, what should I do to make her feel the same way about me, as I feel about her? Reply to this Question
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reader, Brooke123 +, writes (15 January 2008):
Ok im nt sure whether my last one went through so Im doin it again, just talk to her, girls like that plus it will show ur confidence which is a turn on! I think u should do that or use a bit of hinting and flirting, that way u dnt have to make it awkward as u can see how she reacts to this. If she flirts back then maybe think about telling her. If shes your friend then no matter what she will understand, honestly. Just remain calm and feel confident and hopefully it wil all turn out right and even if she doesnt feel the same way its probably nothing against u as she obviously likes u, u know being her friend and all that. It could just be she doesnt wnt to ruin the relationship. Take a chance because u cud end up with what u wnt! If need anymore help email me on the private thingy if u wnt. Good luck im sure all will be fine :] x
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reader, Brooke123 +, writes (15 January 2008):
Heya, I personaly think that you should either talk to her about it and if shes a friend she will be fine with it no matter what or she will feel the same. Or you could just begin to hint things and flirt a bit more and see what reaction she gives off. That way you dont have to tell her and u can find out before things feel awkward for you. Not that it would but you may feel that way.
I think that you have a chance with her for sure bt if she doesnt feel the same dont feel too badly about urself or anything as it could honestly just be the fact she doesnt wnt to ruin the relationship. If I was this girl I'd be fine with you telling me how u feel. Its worth a try, take a risk and u might be supprised. If u need to talk anymore just email me on the private thingy if u wnt :] Good luck x
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 January 2008): Hey mate. Know how you feel. I'm younger than you, and a girl, and theres this guy i've liked for so long, and now it just feels like we're mates. I'm trying to move on and think about other options as the enivitable looks more likely, that he just wants to stay friends. Anyway. Good Luck whatever you do :)
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reader, chlez83  +, writes (14 January 2008):
In life i've learnt that it's much more painful to keep something inside than to voice it out.I don't know how strong you are but i hate dying quietly.You gotta come up with a strategy of telling her how you feel.She needs to be comfortable around you.So you gotta plan activities that bring you closer and the quickest way to do this is find out what she likes and use it to your advantage.As you guys are having fun and enjoying each other's company,you can pop da quetion.Be straight about it and don't make it look like a joke or what if question and be honest.Create the enviroment by continuing to be her friend then get her on a date.
Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 January 2008): Well i probbably shouldnt answer this because im younger than you and having the same thing happen too me.But ill tell you what every body on the planet tells me.Have you tried telling her about your feelings?But since its not that easy try asking her out only, dont insinuat that your going on a date with her instead for instance someones birthday is coming up.Tell her that the people over there are boring and you were looking too invite someone.And then go by what she says.Hope it works out.
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