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writes:As I mentioned, I am starting uni soon.I added a few people on facebook doing the same course or are in the same hall as me.Anyway, I was talking to a girl I added a few weeks ago today on the facebook IM service. She doesn't know anyone going besides a couple of people she knows on facebook.So I asked if I could add her on MSN and hinted we could meet sometime.I added her on MSN and then she signed straight out of facebook and we talked on windows live for about 40-60 minutes. She was really lovely and sweet with me when I mentioned a couple of things that had bothered me and asked if I wanted to talk about these things. I was really touched that someone who has never met me has invited me to talk these things.Anyway I ended the conversation, saying goodnight and reminding her we should meet. She said goodnight ending with xxx (so sweet in my opinion).I am starting to feel attraction here! And the funny thing is there is a big reason I shouldn't: political views. She is conservative while I am a socialist. Normally this would be a huge turn off for me, but I really don't care.Also, she is listed in her profile as being in an open relationship. I am not sure of the implications of this.Is there any way I could consider a possibility of a relationship at some point?
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reader, hlskitten  +, writes (19 September 2008):
 Definately sounds like loose morals then. The person she's in the open relationship is obviously very insignificant. And i would be wondering WHY they were in an open relationship. If she's on a dating site looking for dates, does she just want a shag, if she wants something more long term, its hardly fair on guys looking for genuine people, saying she's single when in fact she's tangled up with someone sexually.
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reader, dobro +, writes (19 September 2008):
dobro is verified as being by the original poster of the question Good point - had not thought of that at all. Strangely though, a profile on another networking site lists her as single. :S
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (19 September 2008):
Not meaning it horrible, but this girl has very loose morals. To be able to be in an open relationship, i personally believe you have to have.
In which case can you see yourself with someone like that?
You cant expect her to change for you or want to, if thats what you have in mind.
C xxxx
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