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writes:I have been out with my girlfriend for 2 years now. However the last few days she has been doubting us and thinking about finishing us. It is both of our first serious relationships and she says she is confused and is doubting everything. I think the main problem is that when we are together it is on he remind and then she is quiet and doubts us more as a result. What can I do or say to her to make her relax and enjoy the time we are together and hopfully stop her from doubting us? Reply to this Question
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reader, AngelofLove +, writes (27 January 2007):
 Remember the good times you had before, do something fun together, be attentive, caring and passionate. Keep the communication flowing, this will certainly help.
Take care.
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reader, goodbutnotgifted  +, writes (27 January 2007):
 Date, go outside a comedy show is great, but your watching someon else do all your work. if she enjoys Van Halen buy tickets or a cd ya know, mix it up something out of the blue that you know she would enjoy, just sounds like its getting old or too serious. if you are low on cash you can go for a walk or watch the stars, maybe plan a day drive, but you'll wnat to keep the conversation or over all atmosphere positive. what was it that got you two together? try it again. good luck
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reader, CarrieMagdelene +, writes (27 January 2007):
 I think that perhaps you guys need to have some fun. :) Lighten her up a little bit, maybe? Take her to a theme park, take her to the movies, take her on a nature hike, to the pool, anything to make her forget about her doubts. Show her a good time, and tell her you love her occasionally during these activities. Stop by her work to give her some flowers you picked yourself (seeing as it's winter, the florist can make you a colorful wildflower bouqet), or rent a bunch of movies to watch together on a friday night. If she's more a romantic, a nice dinner at a fancy place, perhaps. Little things like that can really make a girl see what a great guy someone like you is. You're concerned about her feelings in the relationship, which shows us you're a great guy...now show her the Superman inside! ;) -Carrie
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