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writes: We have been dating for 3 years, and it is time for me to go off to college. We had been spending a lot of time together, and she wanted more time to improve relationships with her other friends so she wasn't alone while I was away at college. I agreed to slow our relationship down, and since then she has been pushing me away. Its been over a month, and she has been very distant with me. I wrote her an email telling her how I have missed how our relationship was, and I basically poured out my heart to her. Immediately I regretted it, I don't know why. I went on her email (she gave me her password a few months back) to delete the message I had sent her, and I accidently opened an email to one of her friends instead. The email was about how she wishes she was single to flirt with other guys, and about how her friend recently got a girlfriend, and it kills her. She wished that he would break up with his girlfriend to be with her instead. I know it wasn't my place to read the email, but I told her what I did. She wont talk to me now, and I dont know if I am allowed to be mad. I have no idea what to do, and I need help ASAP!!!
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reader, Jostar37 +, writes (2 August 2006):
Yeah, I agree. Try and turn your fiery emotions into something positive to try and get over her. Stop wasting time thinking about someone who is long over you and look forward to all of your exciting times and new life at college. By the end of your course you will be thinking... what was her name again???? :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2006): Think of it this way mate. For the last month your supposed girlfriend has been doing everything in her power to get another guy to notice her. Everytime she has been out with her friends she has been flirting with this guy and dreaming about him. Advice from someone who has experienced catching his girlfriend cheating. Bin the bitch and dont dare feel guilty about it.
Cheaters are in most cases the most selfish people there is. If there is something wrong with a relationship you should tell your partner what the problems are and try to deal with it. If they dont respond you should break up and then move on. Cheaters however want the best of both worlds, seeing if there is anything better first before jumping ship - leaving the other person lost. They are absolute cowards.
Spend time hanging out with your mates. Try your best to put a positive spin on things even when you feel really down. Try to keep very, very busy to help ease the pain. If you are bored voluteer to do work for people.
Don't be second best to anyone in a relationship.
My words may be harsh but I challenge anyone out there to say I am wrong.
Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2006): well i don't really buy into the whole you 'accidentally' went into her sent mail thing. but you did it, and it's over and done with. moving along. you found out some pretty disturbing information by doing that, and i'd say that you sure do have something to be mad about! she clearly likes someone else, and is not being fair to you. but she'll probably turn it around on you and say that you're the one to blame because you invaded her privacy. which would be a valid point because you did. but either way, you definitely have something to be mad about. because she's not being honest with you, and that's not fair. if i were you, i'd cut all ties with this girl completely. and you say that she won't talk to you anyway...but why would you want to talk to her in the first place? she's obviously not honest with you and not deserving of your time.
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