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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I have the biggest crush on this boy, it all started when I met him last school year. We became good friends, i never really told him how I felt at the idea of being rejected. He was complicated to read, and always sending mixed signals. One day he acted completely and utterly into me, and then the next he said he would never date me. People said we were so cute and acted like an "old married couple" whatever that means... But on the last day of school he bought me Starbucks as a thank you for being a good friend, and in a way like a goodbye gift. He was moving to a different city about 40 miles away from me. Its been nine months since I've seen him, and now we don't talk. I wish I had the guts to tell him how I felt before. Even after all this time I still miss him and like him. I have tried talking to other guys but no one has really made me feel the way he did. I still have hope that one day we could talk again, even though most of my friends said forget about him and that it's never gonna happen it's been too long, and no communication whatsoever.But I was too nervous to make the first move because I didn't think he liked me!Yesterday he IM'd me on Facebook, and all those feelings hit me hard. I couldn't stop smiling for hours! When it was time to go, he said that it was very great to talk to me again and that he would message me later. What do you think this means?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 March 2011): I'm gonna have to agree with the first reply. I've been on the other side of your situation, except the guy told me how he felt and now we don't talk anymore. I'm sure he's distancing himself so he can move on, and that's what you should do! You deserve someone who is clearly interested in you, not this "does he or does he not" type thing. Like the first commenter said, maybe you guys can meet up in the future and maybe sparks will fly, who knows. But for now just move on with your life. You may be struggling to connect with other guys because you're still holding on to your crush. Once you let him go I think you'll find it easier to fall for other guys. Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 March 2011): You said you were friends? To be honest it sounds to me like he just missed talking to you and decided he'd chat to you and obviously he enjoyed it. I don't want to bring you down but sometimes the situation really is simpler than you think...
However maybe afer you've chatted a few more times online you could arrange to meet up again sometime? :)
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