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writes:Hello everyone ... I am writing this cause I am in need of advice and I am stuck. My girlfriend and I have been going out for over 6 months. She is the right one for me, and we have already talked about marriage, kids, etc. We stated to have a sexual relationship within the first month.Recently within the past month, she has become extremely religious with Christ. She wants to live by the bible, which I respect with all my heart. Growing up in a non-religious household, I took religion close to heart and accepted Christ into my life. But, I still feel sex is a very strong part in a relationship. She now claims that she feels uncomfortable being in the same room with me with the door closed cause it may lead to other things. At times, she leads me on and then stops. It's been getting very very difficult for me to cope at night. I'm in tears of how confused I am, and we seem to fight all the time now. She's the love of my life, and I love her with all my heart. We always talk and work things out, but yet sometimes we go to sleep angry at night. I don't want to live day to day to see if we fight or not. I want to live a great relationship where we can make mutual decisions as a couple... Please help me... any advice on what to do would be greatly appreciated. Thanks again Reply to this Question
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reader, Jamer70  +, writes (4 July 2007):
 Yummymummy has once agian said it all like danielepew said.Respect her wishes
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reader, Jamer70 +, writes (4 July 2007):
Yummymummy has once agian said it all like danielepew said.Respect her wishes
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (4 July 2007):
 As is often the case, YummyMummy has said it all.
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reader, YummyMummy +, writes (4 July 2007):
 Sex is a strong part of a relationship, but you can't make her have sex if she doesn't want to. Do you really want sex to spoil what you two have?
I'm pregnant at the moment and my sex drive has taken a plunge and I know my partner finds it very hard as he has a high sex drive but he loves me and respects that when I don't want to he can't make me.
It isn't right for her to lead you on. You need to tell her that it was her choice for no sex, and she can't wind you up then hang you out. She either leaves the sex thing well alone like she has said or you go back to how things were.
Try not to go to sleep on a bad note. I hate doing that with my partner. Even if you talk half the night, try and sort it out. It is a hard situation especially seen as you have only been dating 6 months and have already had sex.
I hope this helped :)
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