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writes: My girl just told me she had been with 6 guys before me. One of them was her first love. The second raped her two times while she was with her first love. The third was her first loves friend she began seeing after her first love. The fourth was a friend of the guy who raped her and he raped her two times as well. The fifth was someone that showed intrenst in her after the others and she needed the confort. The last was a guy that she thought there was something there but it did not last. How am I soposed to feel about this? She is so honest she will hurt your feelings, and she is pretty conservetive with herself sexualy. Reply to this Question
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reader, lilmzmoffett +, writes (9 October 2006):
 Please just remember one thing. What happened in the past stays in the past. My husband was not too happy to hear about my past and I honestly so nuts when he brings up my past. Ask her how she feels about this. Tell her its eating at you and you need some closure on the topic. Ask her questions but please dont get angry at her. Remember this happened before you knew her (hopefully), before she developed feelings for you and you her. So it really does not concern you and shouldnt. Feel angry feel upset and hurt but know she did not do any of that to hurt you!
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