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She has a vibrator, and didnt tell me! Why?

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Question - (4 February 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 22 February 2011)
A male United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Ladies,

In your experience, why might a woman purchase a vibrator without telling her spouse?. And why wouldn't she want him to know she has one?

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A female reader, maryglen  United States +, writes (22 February 2011):

women are curious as i was. to have a machine to make love to them.most women want know what its like. its a real bad idea. once she lets herself orgasm with it she will find out how much stronger and more intense the orgasm is . if she has multiple orgasms with it she will find out after the first orgasm as she goes on to the next one . she finds that second and next ones only involve the clitoris .this is where women get hooked . it is so strong and intense only focusing on the clit . from that moment that it happens nothing else will ever give her that feeling and as with me i climax with the vibrator and my first is better than a man could give me . but i cant wait till its over so i can get what im really after. the pure clit climaxes. the other climax is like having a smoke and a pure clit climax with vibrator is like doing cocain . as a woman i am one that can never go back . you cant unring a bell .it will be the best orgasm a woman can have but everything else is so so after that........ sorry thats just the facts .

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2008):

Do you masturbate? It's not like she's secretly using it while having sex with you. While I don't own a vibrator myself, if I'm bored at home and my boyfriend is unavailable I'd much prefer a vibrator to my own hand.

It's not a reflection on you, in fact I think self experimentation is probably the best thing I've ever done for the sex in my relationship.

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A female reader, korculan queen Australia +, writes (4 February 2008):

Honey, you are jealous of a vibrator. First of all do not think that you are not doing a good job. You are probably doing too good a job and she needs a stand in while you are not there. Trust me would you rather her have another partner or a latex toy she can put in the cupboard. Honey vibrators have their place BUT they can't lick a woman.You will never be replaced. Try this technique on her and she will love it. When you go down on her with your tongue on her clitoris trace the alphabet in capitals slowly and by the time you get to O she will be going Oh baby. Your tongue might get sore but it will be worth every minute of it. She might be like me in that she gets her majority of stimulation from her clit and orgasms only with the clitoris stimulated. I have a vibrator and now I orgasm both by the clit and vagina being stimulated. Try the above technique and let me know how you go.

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A male reader, TomWilkinson United Kingdom +, writes (4 February 2008):

TomWilkinson agony auntshe could just be embarassed to tell you

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