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26-29,
anonymous
writes:Dear Cupid,I been friends with this girl for about 2 years now and I really like her, and she likes me back (Im 90% sure).Problem is that she has a boyfriend and they've had sex together. Her friends tell me she likes me and so do my friends, they say she always talks about me,and she hardly ever talks about him.She is always flirting with me and when we hang out with her boyfriend she flirts with me and pays no attention to him.I am not sure what to do, should I ask her how she feels about me and tell her how I feel? or should I just do nothing?Thank you
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2013): This girl seems dumbass. Especially for someone that young... Leave the situation and flirt with other girls too. Cos right now ALL of the power is in her hands and none in yours. You're vulnerable to heart break and cos of some stupid thing. Well I guess you have to use your brain and not your heart. Cos your heart is messed up and you can't think logically right now - age is not an excuse any way. Maybe things will work out. Maybe she'll beat around til you guys are 25. Move on for yourself.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2013): You should definitely talk to her about how she feels and where she's at because otherwise its going to drive you mad if your still seeing her and not knowing how she feels. And if she does want to be with you then you need to find out where her and her boyfriend stand. And whether she doesn't feel the same feelings for her boyfriend and is willing to leave him for you or whether she will mess you about and cheat on him with you but not actually leave him then i would steer clear of her. So if she does tell you that she wants to be with you then don't do anything with until she has left her boyfriend.Hope this helps.
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reader, Dayzee  +, writes (9 February 2013):
Oh so you would like a girlfriend who will cheat on you and you can be the unwitting stooge that her poor bf now is? A girl with no care for the feelings of others. Are you sure that's what you want?
And do you think it's right to steal another guys gf? If she doesn't like her bf she will break up with him. In the mean time she is a flirt and a two timer. Good luck with that. You'll be in the current bf's shoes one day.
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