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writes: I really like this girl but she has a boyfriend she has been texting me for ages and i think she likes me but has never said anything i have said i like her and she has told me that is really sweet and cute. I really want this girl and i know its wrong cause she has a boyfriend but its really screwing my head up wat do i do please help
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2007): ask her if she likes you, I was in the same situation with someone and I asked his mates so invite her round 4 t as a mate then see what happens.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2007): My friend, i had this problem a few years back though slightly different.I had liked this girl for a few years, she was a close friend and i thought i loved her. I had many oppurtunities to be with her until one day she was tired of waiting, she got a boyfriend and disregarded my feelings. I was still in love with her, for months i looked for advice on the internet, through friends and anyhing else cold think of. Then my father gave me the best advice, he said. Son, be her friend. It was so simple, it was brilliant. Once i had taken my feelings out of the equation i could just be her friend. In time she came to realise that she was unhappy and turned to me, her best 'guy' friend. She broke up with her boyfriend and i was there for her. We arestill together now and we are planning on getting married! Now after my problem i go on various sites like this and try to offer the help that was unavailable to me.I thank you for reading what i have had to say and now i get to the morale of my answer. If you love her, if this is what you want, what you truly want then dont worry about what will happen. Seize the any and all oppurtunities and tell her how you feel then be normal. You can't make someone love you, but everyone can be loved so i conclude by saying. Love her and she will love you, and if your lucky enough for her and her boyfriend to split up then your in with a chance. I dont know how long ago this blog was written so i dont know if you will read tis or not but i would appreciate some feedback and would like to know how things turn out for you my friend, Good Luck!
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reader, maxsteel86  +, writes (13 January 2007):
 She hasn't broken up with her current boyfriend even though she knows you like her. Obviously, she doesn't feel the same way about you. Think about the other guy for a minute. How would you feel if some guy was trying to come in between you and your girlfriend? Situations like these really need to be avoided. If her boyfriend suspects you might have had something to do with them breaking up, what do you think his reaction's gonna be?
If they break up due to other reasons, then there's no problem in trying your luck. But right now, maybe its best you find another girl you really like. Sometimes, people tend to want what they cant have. And when they have it, they're not so into it no more
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 January 2007): I think you should just wait. If this girl likes you then she will say she does eventually if you have already told her you do. If she does like you more than her boyfriend then she will come to you. If she doesn't then it's time to move on!
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reader, cd206 +, writes (13 January 2007):
 She knows that you like her and she still hasn't broken up with her boyfriend. That makes me think she doesn't feel the same way.... yet. Be her friend. Be there for her whenever she needs someone and maybe she'll see you in a different light. Hope this helps.
CD
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 January 2007): I will advice you go for her, cox the more you see her to more you love her even when you know she have a boy friend... our people say, that you can not decide when you fall in love to whom your heart desired, and if you know you really love her, go ahead and talk to her, beside humans develop love toward each other, you may think since she is in love with another guy, that you cant no longer make it, but you will find out that if she talk to her, and she agree to go along with you, you will find her as your soul mate, cox i have actually experience what you are you just passing through now, and as a guy i workout thing and till right now i am talking to you, the girl is still with me, so it will really depends on how you plays your game with her.... best of luck.
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