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writes: See, I'm kinda crushing on this guy. But I know he has a girlfriend and she's pregnant with his baby. And his girlfriend doesn't go to our school. Whenever he gets a chance he stares at me and whenever we pass each other in the hall, he looks at me square in the eye. Weve had some past problems but I was wandering if (1) You think he likes me?(2) What characteristics should I look for in a guy who i think likes me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 July 2007): yes find sum1 else
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2007): grow up, sure he may like you, but he has bigger priorities than dealing with ur stupid crush. Think about how unfair it is to his girlfriend. Dont try to interfere, if he makes a move, tell him to smarten up. He needs to be a man right now.
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reader, cd206  +, writes (13 January 2007):
 I think he does like but to be honest I don't think it'd be right to do anything about it. She's in a very vulnerable position at the moment and she needs her boyfriend with her. It'd be wrong to pursue him right now however right it feels. Sorry to be harsh though. Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 January 2007): "just be friends with HER and not allow anything to go further than that"*
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 January 2007): 1) Possibly and 2) what you've said are good signs he fancies you.
Now for the hard liquor shot of martini - would it be a positive ethical thing to not do anything about him, considering he has a pregnant girlfriend? I mean, if it was me and I was attracted to a girl at school whom already have a boyfriend, I think my second instinct would to just be friends with him and not allow anything to go further than that.
Then again, if for some heaven forsaken reason you can't control your emotional libido, then sure, try your best to break them up. Why not?
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 January 2007): DONT DO ANYTHING WITH THIS GUY! PLEASE!!!!!
i made the mistake of kissing my best friends bf the same day as she found out she was pregnant...we had a bit to drink but thats n excuse and what happened happened.
Its not nice after when u realise exactly what uve done so id just stay away!
So hey he might like u, but it wouldnt be worth the harrassment, trust me on that! i got alot of it!
Anyway, im guessing that ur like between 15-18 seeing as ur still at school, luckily i had just left school when my little thing happened, imagine what people would say at school? i had it bad with people knowing from work, i dont know if i would have coped if hundreds of other people knew aswell!
Just forget abt him, u will find someone one day, who isnt somebody elses! i did!
Good Luck!!!!
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