| A
male
,
anonymous
writes: My girlfriend and I dated for almost a year now. About 1 month into our relationship I found out that she had gone to lunch with her ex-lover. I also learned that he had been coming to the gym that her and I work out at and running on the treadmill right next to her - I was of course completely oblivious to this happening. When I confronted her she said that she had in fact gone to lunch with him and that all they talked about was us. She said that he had been coming to the gym and that he works at her office about once a month. I tried to break up with her then and for some reason thought that I could just forget about it. Well, I have not forgotten about it and as a result I don't trust her. I just broke up with her a week ago and she is asking for me to reconsider - should I?
View related questions:
broke up, her ex Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, auntie claire +, writes (13 February 2006):
 dear reader. it sounds to me that you might justhave your wires crossed a little all relationships don't end badly you can still be friends so may-be thats all it is if it really does bother you that much why not ask her just to calm it down about seeing him so much tell her exactly how it makes you feel be straight with her its only if she refuses then you have cause to worry but i hope its just a bit misunderstanding i wish you well and hope things get sorted quickly for you xxx
|
