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If I spend time with the guy who "likes the single life", will I end up being disappointed?

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Question - (12 February 2006) 1 Answers - (Newest, 13 February 2006)
A female , *straeaKiana writes:

Hiya, I met a boy about a month ago and we've been getting on really well. He's 19, I'm 17. He texts me every day asking how I am and what I'm up to. He even came to a friend's party where he didn't know anybody but me and he's told me outright that he likes me.

The thing is, he told me that he's loving the single life and that he hasn't been single for around four years. I can understand that he likes the single life (being single myself) but he's still really flirty with me and wants to meet up regularly.

I think I want more out of this relationship than he does. I don't want to just be someone he can use to make himself feel better, but at the same time I still want to be around him. What should I do?

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A female reader, auntie claire +, writes (13 February 2006):

auntie claire agony auntdear reader i think you need to talk to him about how you feel its obvious that he does like you a lot and yeah it all fun being single but we all have to settle down at soem time in our lives may-be if you ask him if you can both take it slow get closer and may-be at the nd you will have a good strong relationship try not to rush yourselfe into it your still young enough to enjoy life live to the max and settle down later on sounds to me you already have a good thing going there try not to scare him off

wishing you good luck and loads of happiness xxx

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