A
male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: okay today was very strange and i need some advice from you aunts..' well any ways my life is pretty dull, boring, not full of excitement at all..pretty miserable in fact.. but today i was on the bus and all of a sudden this this really hot girl came out of no where..( i know who she was but we've never had a reall conversation cause im very selfconscious and never thouhgt id have a chance with her) well anyways she comes out of nowhere sits right next to me and grabs be by the neck and starts making out with me.....then she starts feeling me up down there and tells me that she's liked me for a long time (i was too caught in the moment to refuse her actions) my question is should i ask her, and go out with her?? because i really dont know about her..i feel a little strange about the whole situation...an dif i dont all my guy friends are gonna think im an idiot for letting her go....cause they all saw what happened it was pretty embarassing because they saw the boner in my pants and a big wet spot what should i do?? sorry for writing so long thanks Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the question yeah she pulled me aside today and apologized for what she did....she said she didn't mean to be that pushy.
she said she did it because she's been crushing on me for the passed 5 months and just didn't know how to approach me ( it's really surprising how she's really shy)..so she decided to go out on a limb and take a risk..
and we ended up going out.....i learned so much more about her, she's a very enteresting girl, she's really nice and sweet..there's more to her than meets the eye..
any ways thank you to every one who answered
A
male
reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2009): I sort of agree with the last answer. I think it might be something that she was put up to. You might know the likely answer to that question better than we do. Or maybe she was "put up to it" but it was something that she privately wanted to do anyway. It's not easy to get a teenage girl to do something that blatant and public to a strange boy unless she is also secretly willing to do it with you anyway. It's easy to get girls to begrudgingly kiss you and run or something, but this sounds more like she was showing some real enthusiasm at the time. It doesn't sound like she just lost a bet or something if you know what I mean. I think you need to get her talking to you in private. If nobody else can see or hear what is being said between you two, I think you will probably find out real quick what is really feeling. She still might not admit it all in words, but you'll learn a lot more than you know about her right now. The telephone might not work (too much possibility that her friends are in the room or on the line) but talking to her in person probably will reveal some things.
...............................
A
reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2009): I know that you are young, but you seem pretty smart and even if your life does not seem as socialble and exciting as your friends may choose to pretend and portray theirs as being, look at the facts of your day to day life. Except for the movies, is it normal for two people that do not or barley even know each other to just start making out? Is this something that you have actually wittnessed even one other time in your life? I am 38 years old and I can honestly say that I have not. Chances are, she was put up to it either by her friends or, more then likely, yours. She would probably not do something like this to hurt or embarrass you though. She more then likley is a little bit on the immuture side or may even suffer form low self esteem and probably has a crush on one of your friends, so she falsely believes that by doing what they tell her or dare or to, she is empressing them. They clearly do not like or respect her very much at all or else they would not presude her to go make out with you. Would you dare a girl that you like and actually would consider going out with to go make out with some other guy? I think the joke was probably more on her then it was you. It is good that you did not react to it and unless she privately approches you and explains to you that she is bi-polar and forgot to take her medication, then I would continue to play it off as if you knew that they were just being A-holes and you did not want to hurt her feelings by rejecting her. Then say "but I already have a girlfriend that I do respect". This will make them feel as immuture as they are acting and they will suddenly have a newly found respect for you.
...............................
|
