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writes:can someone please help me? I met my ex g/f via internet dating. we met and the sparks flew immediately. we didnt rush into anything and were always together. our kids loved each other and we loved them. she left her ex because he used to get drunk all the time,never be there for her and used to verbally abuse her.she couldnt stand his child either. we constantly talked about the future and she would always call me her future husband,the man who makes her smile. she always said i was the best thing that ever happened to her and that i was everything she ever wanted in a man.that she looked forward to spending the rest of her life with me. then her ex started contacting her and saying the things she wanted to hear when they were together. she kept reassuring me that we wouldnt split.3 days after she told me i was amazing and thoughtful and she loved me so much she left me to go back to him. she wont talk to me now and refuses to see me so i can say a proper goodbye.she tells me she has made her desicion and i must move on with my life. i love her so very much. we never had one arguement and we were amazing together.have i lost her forever? what do i do i am devastated i want her back so very much. help!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 June 2007): I would just like to say thankyou for your replies. I just think something is wrong that has made her act this way. I mean from going to being everything she was looking for, making her feel like the most loved woman in the world and a princess in a fairy tale to nothing i just don't understand. I thought we would be together forever. I will never be the same again.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2007): just concentrate on the future you'll soon feel better
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reader, 2old4this  +, writes (14 June 2007):
 You just move on for now, brother. Seriously, I know how you feel. You feel like your gonna die. I'm sure she does care for you a great deal. She may even love you. But she has a deep wanting for this other man. It doesnt make sense, but she does. She only knows that her dream is to have him become the man she has always wanted. She thinks he is now. Unfortunately, she is probably wrong. She is gonna get hurt again by this man. When this happens, no matter what, you cant go running to her side. You are gonna have to fight with everything you got not to go. Talk to her. listen to her. Then, after a long time if you still want her and you believe she wants you then you can go to her. Right now, try your best to move on. Its the only thing you can do.
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