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She doesn't want to have sex cause she thinks I'm too young

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Question - (22 January 2009) 15 Answers - (Newest, 29 January 2009)
A male Canada age 41-50, *ris_helpme writes:

hey, i'm 15 and my gf's 16. The problem I'm having is that she doesn't want to have sex cause she thinks I'm too young, but I've already had sex and she knows but she still thinks I'm too young, what do i do?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2009):

Wow,i didnt start having sex until i was in my early twenties...but i guess everyone is different. Maybe just try Oral sex...its alot less risky!

Good luck!!!

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A female reader, claire_boyfriendtroubles Canada +, writes (23 January 2009):

lol that has happened before! it's cute that you're 15 ;)

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A male reader, kris_helpme Canada +, writes (23 January 2009):

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kris_helpme agony auntlol ive been trying to change that, i put 1904 for the year i was born :P cause i didnt think it'd show up

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2009):

If you're 15, why have you said that you're 30-35? I'm confused. Are you just trying to wind everyone up? Attention seeking? Just wondering.

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A male reader, kris_helpme Canada +, writes (23 January 2009):

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kris_helpme agony aunti didnt break up with her, she broke up with me. and i did get a slap xD

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2009):

So let me get this straight... you broke up with her because she wouldn't have sex with you and then in the process of 'getting her back' you wind up sleeping with her best friend? Sorry mate but you need to stop thinking with your dick, and need a good slap!

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A male reader, kris_helpme Canada +, writes (23 January 2009):

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kris_helpme agony auntwell i dont masturbate, and i dont want to. so ill try and talk to her tonight and if we get back together ill stick to "other stuff" and stop bothering her about the sex

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2009):

What she means by you are too immature is just that you are too immature.

You are not responsible, you don't wear protection and you think pulling out will keep you safe from getting a girl pregnant.

You have no morals.

You only care about learning what you need to say to get

into this one girl's pants and she has already told you NO.

You have no judgement and have sex with this same girl's best friend. She should never speak to you again, let alone let you touch her.

You are immature because you are only in it for yourself.

Try using your right hand....if you need to releive yourself of sexual tension. Do not use girls for sex....it is immature.

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A male reader, kris_helpme Canada +, writes (23 January 2009):

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kris_helpme agony auntalright...thanks

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A male reader, kris_helpme Canada +, writes (23 January 2009):

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kris_helpme agony auntyeah i dont think i was clear, sorry

weve never slept TOGETHER, and NEITHER OF US are virgins so its not like im taking her virginity.

and we actually broke up... but after we broke up i did something i regret and i know everyone will call me an ass if i say, caus i know it was all my fault and i was an ass for doing it. but idk if i can talk to anyone about it, everyones gunna be pissed : /

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A male reader, kris_helpme Canada +, writes (23 January 2009):

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kris_helpme agony aunti dont think its cause shes "not ready" since weve both had sex already and been pretty close to it together, it didnt happen but it almost did (if u get what i mean). but is there something she wants to hear? tell me from a girls point of view

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A male reader, kris_helpme Canada +, writes (23 January 2009):

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kris_helpme agony auntweve done pretty much everything besides that,

so i dont get what she means by "im not mature enough", shes not a virgin either... idk im confused :(

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A male reader, kris_helpme Canada +, writes (23 January 2009):

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kris_helpme agony auntbut theres no law against that in canada

and i dont think thats the problem with her

she says she doesnt think im "mature" enough to move into that, when i already have :l

she doesnt get that lol

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2009):

Dont pressure her, if she says no then stick to that and love her whether you are allowed to have sex or not.

There are other ways of being intimate and having a successful relationships.

When the times right, it will happen.

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A female reader, aunty_rach United Kingdom +, writes (23 January 2009):

she obviously does not want to break the law. you can't force her to change her mind. you just have to wait.

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