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male
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes: I am in love with my first cousin and have been through a lot with her in a few months of our relationship. We start of well and now in a long distance relationship. I am a posseessive and full of insecurities and that messed up our relationship. Now I told her that I am taking steps to change that I would want her to be a part of my life but she just wants me to move on in life but I can't see myself get through this ife without her. She has Made me realise so many things and I love her so deeply . I just want her back but she has kinda made up her mind (she never wanted to be in a relationship before me after she broke up with her first boyfriend. Maybe she might not want me back but I really need her. please help me. I can't work well thinking of her not wanting me again.
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reader, PunkyPippi +, writes (23 January 2009):
She doesn't want to be with you, and you are not going to change her mind. Give yourself some space from her (don't call her), and realize how amazing you are without being with a woman.
You have to be happy and love yourself...the rest will fall into place after that.
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