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*ossMcGowan
writes:hi ive been having a problem lately... im not turned on as much by my gf. we used to have like sex 7-8 times a week but now its like 1 lol. it goes up but like doesnt stay up and after a while goes down. like when i used to see her breasts id be like wow and now im like.... i dont bother that much. anyone got any ideas whats wrong with me???
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reader, RossMcGowan +, writes (7 March 2008):
RossMcGowan is verified as being by the original poster of the questiona lot of the things mentioned applies to me.... a lot of the above but im able to masturbate easily so im easily turned on by other woman... weve been going out for about 2 and a half years now. im going to try a number of things like spicing it up and that and see what happens.... i mean we do do all sorts but if shes like horny all shell do it like play with my penis a bit... she doesnt like oral either, what im going to do is have a word see what she says about things i mean coz it is putting a strain on our relationship. ill let you know what happens
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2008): How long have you been with this girlfriend? I only ask as sometime the 'honeymoon period' is very touchy feely and sexual and often this is when we find our partners most attractive. It is only normal that after this period the interest dies off a little, you talk about not being sexually excited by her anymore, however if you care for her and still want to be with her then this could just be a passing phase.
Perhaps your relationship needs spicing up a little, try not to boring in the bedroom, move away from missionary position sex, dress up, buy tingly lubes - whatever floats your boat, its easy to fall into a comfort zone with someone and stop appreciating how beautiful they are. If you intend to stay with her, ACT NOW before she gets bored with you too. x
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reader, love-him +, writes (6 March 2008):
 HEY!!
How long have you noticed yourself being like this, it could be that you are stressed, or you have other things on your mind? Does she give you fore-play or oral.. and if she does, does it do anything for you? Me and my partner used to have a very full on sex life and average we had sex around 20times a week (due to my high sex drive) But now he works away and it is like you, we only have it once a week. Let me know how you get on x x x
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