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writes:I love her so much, It hurts alot when i'm trying to forget her. She said to me she likes me and i told her i love her too, we are together about 3 mouthes for a serious relation, and one day she told me that her x-boyfriend want to return to her and she accepted him again, she want us to become friends but i can't be her friend i want to be her lover and i still love her so so much i can't move on without her because it was a real love. She didn't care about me but i care about her 100 %, i was frank in every thing with her i can't forget her, i have a lot of depression for my situation...............please tell me what i have to do and how i can move on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2009): I'm facing a similar problem right now. I'm loving someone, but she has an ex-boyfriend and she seems to like him, and she doesn't care about me. I'm feeling really bad and it hurts a lot.
Last week I just discovered Frank Sinatra 50's songs, and I'm listening to it 24 hours a day. Pretty sad love songs. It doesn't make me feel better, but it helps me to sit down and think about what I really want.
To bad what I want is her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 February 2009): life sometimes deals tough cards. being in a relationship where your love can't be returned is painful, very painful. The thing that has helped me here is; if you love her, truly love her - which would you be pleased with that she was very happy with someone else or unhappy with you?
there is only one answer.
Ok so to move on - you start moving - the thing that is happening is you are thinking. Stop. get busy, do things - go out, change you. meet people. dont think. (its very overated) when you think of her push her from your mind think of something else. like greatest car in the world (if you are into cars) or the business you would like to own (if you like business) or your favourite ice cream (:) if you are me).
i have used my favourite phrase 3 times today here - but its useful here to:
Look back, just don't stare.
Hugs.Star.x.
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