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writes:Ok yesterday afternoon when the girl I really like finished college I met up with her and did what always do have a chat and a laugh. But when I bring up feelings or sumthing similar she becomes evasive of the whole thing like she's not interested and it confuses me because I told her my feelings for her and just said "thanks" and "you can't help who you fall for". I'm asking this because I really like her and I want to be with her and I don't know whether to ask her out or talk to her about the whole thing any suggestions will get my thanks Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 September 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionAbout these subtle signals, I have spotted them but I don't know what they mean fully, whether she's saying no or playing hard to get I can't tell the difference so it seems sooner or later I'm gonna get it wrong either way. What's the best way of jus getting a straight answer that I need clearly.
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reader, Jmtmj  +, writes (25 September 2010):
 I agree with quietecho.
She already knows your feelings for her... she's subtly trying to let you know that she doesn't feel the same way about you.
You can listen... or you can ignore her signals and get rejected, but it'd be a shame to lose her if she's a good friend.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (25 September 2010):
 Hi i think its best if you sit down and explain to her how you feel tell her you need to know if the feelings are returned and if anything will ever happen between the two of you. You need to ask her or it will just eat up inside of you. If she doesnt feel this way about you then maybe it would be for the best if you never spent as much time with her as it will be hard for you, i hope you get this cleared up.
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