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male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I have not too much experience with girls, Ive been dating this girl for a while. We dated and we had oral but not nothing further. then after a few dates later she finally decided to have sex with me. Not long ago she told me she bought online a dildo to try a few years ago. And now couple of weeks later she told me I was her first and she was a virgin at the time we had sex. I'd like to know if its a common practice for virgin girls to use dildos or did she lied to me about this whole virginity thing. She didnt seem like a virgin at all at the time we had sex. Thanks!
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reader, CMMP +, writes (21 December 2013):
How many virgins have you slept with to know what they seem like?
Every person is different, even virgins.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (20 December 2013):
 I assume with you waste knowledge of virgins you would know that NO TWO women feel or ACT the same at their first time having sex.
OBVIOUSLY the girl you had sex with ins't shy about sex or shy about exploring her sexuality or trying a toy.
THAT really doesn't make her LESS of a virgin or less of a woman. You, my man, are barking up the wrong tree if you ASSUME that women with ALL OUR diversity CAN ONLY act one certain way when having sex, whether it is for the first or the 20th time.
Stop being IGNORANT or stop having sex.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (20 December 2013):
 what does a virgin seem like? how many virgins have you had?
you say you don't have much experience and yet you feel you can accuse a young woman of LYING based on what?
I'm seeing a future RJ sufferer here....
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (20 December 2013): How are virgins supposed to seem? I neither bled nor experienced any pain the first time I had sex
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 December 2013): I don't ow how far she went with that dildo, but if her hymen is broken she would have an easier time to go through first time sex
When I had sex for the first time, I had a hard time going through this. It was in a lot of pain, I don't think a guy knew what he was doing. It took us like 3 tries for me to loose mine.
I was not bleading though, so blood is not always an indication of virginity. But for me this moment was very uncomfortable, and tell you the truth it was far from pleasure. There was no doubt for my first lover that I was a virgin.
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (20 December 2013):
 Is this you as well?
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/did-she-lost-her-virginity-to-a-dildo.html
What do you mean 'she didn't seem like a virgin at the time we had sex"
You have already said you don't have much experience with girls so maybe you should leave the assumptions and judgement calls until you do have more experience, like in 20 years or so.
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