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writes: Hi, a girl I was seeing for a month recently broke up with me. She said that she had "changed her mind" about being with me. However, several days after the break up, she texted me a message in the middle of the night that read; "I feel so bad about everything". I did not answer back because I did not know what she was trying to say or the reaction she was looking for. It has been five days since that message. Should I forget about her or wait for her to make another move? Can someone please advise? Vic.
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reader, Astrid  +, writes (28 August 2006):
 I think you should consider why she broke up with you or why the relationship didn't work at all I think that not answering was a bit harsh, maybe you can be friends for a time and see what happens, but I think you should have a chat
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reader, Juliette  +, writes (28 August 2006):
 From my view, I think you should reply as she will no doubt construe no reply as you cannot be bothered to, or "I'm not speaking to you again", which is not what you meant is it?
I would contact her, if only to separate on better terms and talk things through. To not reply is to let her continue to think you have no doubts that you cannot be bothered to speak to her, whereas really I have the impression you did not respond because you did not know how to at the time. Youj need to decide which meaning you want to part with?
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reader, bonym +, writes (28 August 2006):
 If she sent you the one text that you did not reply to and she has not sent any futher texts since then then just leave it for a while, unless of course you want to get back with her. Remember she broke up with you and she had her reasons, whatever they were, it doesnt seem like you have done anything wrong so I personally think you should leave it. Unless of course you want to reply to the message and say something along the lines of "What do you mean by you are sorry, what are you trying ot say?" That encourages her to explain her reasons and help you better understand why she ended it. Good luck. xXx
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