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female
age
30-35,
*arolinastate
writes:I've been with this wonderful and amazing girl for 4 months and it was 100% happiness for both of us, she wanted to see me, I missed her, she missed me, it was passionate and there was soooo much love! It was perfect. I met her when we were both attending different High Schools, so we saw each other once or twice a week, so we both had time to be independent and see our friends. She's a very lonely and independent person and also very shy, and I like to be close to the ones I love and I like the company of others. I'm the opposite. But still, we were madly in love at that time. Then, summer started and we started to see each other every day because both of us wanted to, so I slept at her house many times and we did everything together. After two weeks, she started to be more distant.She said she loved me less, and stuff like that. But seriously, that's impossible in 2 weeks to feel that you don't love someone anymore. Then she talked to me and told me that she didn't know if she loved me. It was so confused for both of us. Last weekend we went on holiday together and she broke up with me at the end. She told me that she needed space, and time to be alone. She said she didn't want to be with somebody or somebody else, she just wanted to be single. And she told her mom she didn't want me to be with someone. She wants us to be friends but sometimes she acts like she's jealous. I send nothing, and yesterday she sent me a text saying 'Have a sweet and lovely night, kisses 3'. So I was happy. That was the kind of text messages she sent me when we were still together. Everyone is shocked to hear we broke up. We were the perfect couple to them. So I feel bad. I cried when it was over but I still have the feeling she'll come back in a few weeks so i'm okay and enjoying life with my friends. But what about if she doesn't come back? Does she still love me?
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reader, Dear Mandy  +, writes (2 August 2012):
 HI
Run as far away as possible from this cruel women, she knows exactly what she is doing, and that is using you when she has nothing better to do, and huge mind games. You dont deserve to be treated this way. She is obviously still very childish too, that has got to be the quickest in love out of love situation ever. Find yourself a women who knows what she wants and that is you , not playing games. If you continue with this kind of relationship you could possibly find it hard to trust another women, one that would be perfect for you.
Mandy x
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