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writes:I like a girl in my collage called "Laura". We started talking on the 16th of May and she cuddled me for some reason, I felt a warm feeling after that (I had not cuddled anyone before her for 5 months), we then started to talk in which I found out that we have a lot in common, she also asked me for cuddled for some reason... The next day we was talking some more and I found out that she had never had a relationship, she told me that she doesn't want to e asked out and that she won't date unless she's in love, the same day I walked her home. I made her a few drawing for her but I done a stupid thing; I told her that she wasn't beautiful... That was on Monday, I couldn’t tell her that as a week is too soon to tell a girl that she is beautiful to me as I don't want to scare her off... I'm allowed to vist her once a week now which is good for me... When I’m at her house (I don’t go inside her house as I believe I have no right to go in her house unless she invited me in) I have to stop myself from asking for a cuddle as I have to respect her as I’m on her land and I have this fear that her father is watching us or listen somehow (This is due to me watching Hannah Montana when Billy ray was watching Milley and her boyfriend…), I think she knows that I like her as when I call her cute she tells me to stop…. Yet she asks me for cuddles…. I’m really confused…. My friend told me that “Laura” likes me yet I I still think it’s too early to think such things. Reply to this Question
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reader, Dear Mandy +, writes (15 June 2011):
 woah woah woh you told her she WAS NOT beautiful??? yes a very big mistake, but can be corrected. When you see her next just tell her the truth, that you like her and that she is beautiful, you just said that because you was scared of how you were starting to feel about her. You obviously dont think its too early to start thinking these things hun or you wouldn't be writing this now. Why dont you ask her to meet up for coffee or something and tell her then, its the only way your going to find out where this is going xx
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