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writes:Hi..What should I think when a girl asks my boyfriend if he wants to walk her home? This girl is one of our close friends' girlfriend and we spent about 3 nights out with them since march...and while we know the guy very well, we're not so close to the girl. She just moved back into town mid-may and when we usually go out she doesn't talk much to my bf in front of me, I have noticed, but apparently feels free to ask him if he wants to walk her home. I left early from the library yesterday n he was having a smoke with a friend of his and when she was leaving she asked him if he's headed home (my bf n i live together n she lives kinda across the street), he replied he was waiting for a friend n wasn't headed home, then she asked him "Do you wanna walk me home?" He told me he said no, he was gonna wait for his friend..I know this probably does not sound like a big deal but it's really, really bothering me, since I have seen girls, gfs of friends, a very close friend, etc. mess around with an ex while i was seeing him..This girl is also someone who uses "feminine charms/wiles" to get what she wants, free drinks in clubs, better grades in class n things like that. Am I over-reacting??? I don't feel like I can trust herr! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2007): It doesn't seem like you have to trust her since your boyfriend is trustworthy himself. However there is another possibility to this incident and that is maybe she was afraid to walk home alone. I am not sure what the neighborhood is like but it's possible that she just wanted someone she knew with her of safety. Whether thats the case or not someone who uses her body to get what she wants is a person to be avoided. Take care.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (7 June 2007):
 Looks like you might not be able to trust her but it also looks like you can trust your boyfriend which more important.
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reader, myp +, writes (7 June 2007):
 BE EXTREMELY WARY!!! she sounds like the kind of girl whos trying to steal your man but dont make assumptions, continue to be nice just be REALLY cautious when you talk about yourself or your boyfriend. Dont confide in her about you or your boyfriend, or anything for that matter chances are shes not your friend and is not looking to create peace and harmony in her personal relationships.
good luck
-Myesha
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